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February 28, 2010

Gempa di Chile .. Ada dampaknya ga yah sama di Indonesia???

Rada-rada prihatin .. plus kaget .. plus sedih semua bercamapur jadi satu waktu mendengar musibah gempa di Chile Sabtu, 27 februari 2010. Pas lihat di tv jadi keinget sama gempa di Padang 30 September 2009 lalu .. Hikss ... Tiba-tiba jadi merinding .. Udah gitu ingat Gempa Haiti juga.. Oh Tuhan .. Lindungilah kami ya Allah ...

Dengar-dengar dari BMKG sih .. ga ada dampaknya ke Indonesia. Walaupun Australia dan Jepang sudah mengantisipasi masyarakatnya tentang Gempa sedari dini .. Tapi di Papua tak perlu dicemaskan .. nah begitu tuh kata BMKG nya. Cuma ... mengingat kejadian di tahun 1960-an .. yang waktu itu terjadi juga di Chile dampaknya sampai ke Jepang, Australia da Philipina lho .. Nah lho .. gimana gak cemas coba .. korbannya aja sampai 1.655 orang ..

Yahh .. Semoga saja .. Kita senantiasa dilindungi dari musibah ya .. dan jika pun diberi cobaan semoga bisa sabar dan tabah menerimanya .. aminn ...

Sekelumit berita tentang Gempa :

Gempa Di Padang, 30 September 2009

JAKARTA, Indonesia (CNN) -- Another strong earthquake rocked Indonesia early Thursday as the Southeast Asian nation was reeling from an earlier jolt that killed more than 200 people.

A resident stands next to building that collapsed onto a car in Padang, Indonesia, on Wednesday.

A resident stands next to building that collapsed onto a car in Padang, Indonesia, on Wednesday.

The 6.8 magnitude quake Thursday hit southern Sumatra at 8:52 a.m. local time (0152 GMT), the Pacific Tsunami Warning Center said. Wednesday's earlier quake was 7.6 magnitude.

At least 236 people are dead and more than 500 injured, the Indonesian Social Ministry's Crisis Center said Thursday. It said it had little information on the missing and feared the death toll would climb into the thousands.

The second quake was on a smaller scale than the first, said meteorology official Fauzi, who uses only one name. There were no damage reports yet.

Indonesian Health Minister Siti Fadilah Supari expected "the casualties and the damage of this earthquake to be bigger than the 2006 Yogyakarta earthquake, given the intensity and the spread of the damage."

The magnitude-6.3 Yogyakarta quake in central Java in May 2006 killed more than 5,000 people, triggered fears of an eruption of a nearby volcano and caused significant damage to a 9th century Prambanan temple.

Thousands may be trapped by collapsed buildings and houses, Rustam Pakaya, the head of the Health Ministry's crisis center, told CNN on Wednesday.


State-run Antara news agency cited Pakaya as saying he had received reports that part of a hospital had collapsed and that people were buried under the debris.

The temblor struck around 5 p.m., about 33 miles (53 kilometers) from Padang, the capital city of West Sumatra and home to more than 800,000 people.

The quake caused widespread power and phone outages, making it difficult to assess damage.

Aid agencies kicked into gear to help those in need.

"We had aid ready because this area of Indonesia is susceptible to this type of tragedy," said Jane Cocking, humanitarian director for Oxfam. "Communications with the quake-zone are difficult and we are hoping for the best but having to plan for the worst."

"The situation is quite devastating," said Amelia Merrick, the operations director for World Vision Indonesia.

"Bridges have gone down, phone lines are in total disrepair. It's difficult for us to assess the situation," she said. The organization had said it would send assessment teams to the area Thursday morning.

"We know there's no electricity tonight... many of the families will be spending the night outdoors, in pitch black. I'm very afraid of what might happen next," she said, referring to the possibility of aftershocks.

Fact Box

PADANG:
  • Low-lying coastal city of 900,000 on Sumatra island


  • Capital city of Western Sumatra province


  • Known for distinctive cuisine


  • An important port to trade raw materials such as coffee, copper, rubber and cement


  • Runs along the fault line of the Eurasian and Pacific tectonic plates -- the same fault line that triggered 2004 tsunami of Aceh province



  • Sources: Indonesian government, Lonely Planet and Reuters

Hundreds of houses have been damaged, Wayne Ulrich, the Red Cross disaster management coordinator in Indonesia, told CNN. "We do not know the [exact] numbers."

"We have concerns that a hospital has been partially damaged, a market has caught on fire, the airport was closed down for inspection because of the fear if they landed any planes," it might cause problems, Ulrich said.

Access to the affected areas was obstructed in parts, he added.

It's "blocked by all kinds of problems: frightened people out in the streets, cars, and people trying to get out of the city."

The earthquake was felt in nearby cities, such as Medan and Bengkulu, where people panicked and ran outside in search of higher ground, fearing a tsunami.

But it was also felt as far away as Singapore and Malaysia.

"I did feel the tremor in office today somewhere between 5 - 6 p.m.," said Ratna Osman, who works in a single-story office building in Petaling Jaya, just outside Malaysia's capital Kuala Lumpur.

"I asked [a co-worker] if there's an earthquake somewhere -- either that or I was hallucinating."

"At first, I thought the chair I was sitting on had a screw loose or something," Osman said.

The region is accustomed to earthquakes, and locals have been taught to identify safe places in case of a tsunami, according to Sean Granville-Ross, the Mercy Corps country director for Indonesia.

"We hope that preparation is now paying off," he said.

But if many homes have been destroyed, people may be spending the night with no shelter, he said.

Earlier this month, an earthquake in West Java killed 57 people.

Several buildings were damaged, Metro TV reported, and people were seen running out of their homes and toward the hills.

One employee of a private company in Jalan Ahmad Yani, told Antara news agency that "everybody panicked with some shouting 'earthquake.'"

TVOne pictures from the scene showed people milling around outside in the city.

Phone lines were apparently down in many parts of Padang. Indonesia's Tempo Interactive, a media outlet based in Jakarta, had trouble reaching its correspondent in the West Sumatra city, according to journalist Purwani Diyah Prabandari.

"I hope it's just the cell phone connection," Prabandari told CNN.

Indonesians trying to find out more about the quake flooded the Internet, including Twitter. Some expressed concern for relatives and friends in Padang.

"Dear God, please send down your angels to hug and protect my grandpa in Padang," said one Twitter post.

The Web site for one of Indonesia's main newspapers, The Jakarta Globe, crashed for a while, partly as a result of the heavy traffic from people trying to find out about the quake, the paper said in a Twitter post.

The Pacific Tsunami Warning Center of the National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration (NOAA) issued a tsunami watch for Indonesia, India, Thailand and Malaysia, but canceled it soon after.

The temblor did generate a tsunami just under one foot high, the Pacific Tsunami Warning Center said.

On Tuesday, a magnitude 8.0 quake-triggered tsunami killed at least 111 people in the Samoan islands and Tonga.

The tsunami waves swept across a wide swath of the Pacific Ocean, killing dozens and flattening or submerging villages.

The dead included 22 in American Samoa, 82 in Samoa and seven in Tonga.

Officials warned that the death toll could rise as rescue workers start to reach outlying villages and discover new casualties.

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The U.S. Geological Survey declined to say whether the two quakes were linked.

"The simple answer is we can't speculate on a connection," Carrieann Bedwell of the USGS told CNN. "Both are in highly seismic areas."

The epicenters of the two temblors are about 4,700 miles (7,600 km) apart.




Gempa di Samoa

(CNN) -- A magnitude 8.0 earthquake struck the Pacific near American Samoa, triggering towering tsunami waves that gushed over the island and leaving at least 22 people dead.

The tsunami wave hit right in the middle of the harbor of Pago Pago, the capital.

The tsunami wave hit right in the middle of the harbor of Pago Pago, the capital.




American Samoa Gov. Togiola Tulafono, speaking from Hawaii, said Tuesday's quake ranked "right up there with some of the worst" disasters on the island. He said about 50 people had been treated for injuries so far but he expected that number to rise.

The quake hit the small cluster of South Pacific islands early Tuesday morning. By evening, Laumoli, standing outside the LBJ Tropical Medican Center morgue in the capital of Pago Pago, confirmed 22 deaths.

"I thought it was the end of the world," said Dr. Salamo Laumoli, director of health services. "I have never felt an earthquake like that before."

Laumoli feared more fatalities would turn up as rescue workers were still trying to access parts of the island severed by damaged infrastructure.

Laumoli said people in outlying villages on one end of the main island have been cut off because the main bridge was washed away.

"Two or three villages have been badly damaged," he told CNN International


Tulafono cited extensive damage to roads, buildings and homes, and said he had spoken to the military about mobilizing reserve forces for assistance.

The Pacific Tsunami Warning Center in Ewa Beach, Hawaii, canceled tsunami watches and warnings for American Samoa about four hours after the earthquake hit. However, a tsunami advisory is still in effect for for the coastal areas of California and Orego


The Japan Meteorological Agency also activated a tsunami advisory along its eastern coast. The precautionary alert means that the height of a possible tsunami wave would be less than a foot and a half.

President Barack Obama "declared a major disaster exists in the Territory of American Samoa" late Tuesday and ordered federal aid to supplement local efforts. The declaration makes federal funding available to affected individuals.


The tsunami waves hit right in the middle of the Pago Pago harbor, the capital, said Cinta Brown, an American Samoa homeland security official working at the island's emergency operations center. The water devastated the village of Leone.


"The wave came onshore and washed out people's homes," Brown said.

The same happened on the hard-hit east and west sides of American Samoa, she said.

The quake generated three separate tsunami waves, the largest measuring 5.1 feet from sea level height, said Vindell Hsu, a geophysicist with the Pacific Tsunami Warning Center. Preliminary data had originally reported a larger tsunami.

Officials in the U.S. territory issued a clear call and were focusing on assessing the damage, Brown said.

Reports of damage were still emerging, but a bulletin from the Pacific Tsunami Warning Center said the waves "may have been destructive along coasts near the earthquake epicenter and could also be a threat to more distant coasts. Authorities should take appropriate action in response to this possibility."

Tulafono, the governor, was on his way back home Tuesday night on one of two U.S. Coast Guard C-130 transport planes flying to American Samoa with aid.

The Coast Guard also will transport more than 20 officials from the Federal Emergency Management Agency to American Samoa, said John Hamill, external affairs officer for FEMA in Oakland, California.

The FEMA team will include a variety of debris experts, housing experts, members of the Corps of Engineers, and other disaster relief specialists, Hamill said.

Tulafono told reporters Tuesday that it was hard being away from home when disaster came calling. It was a time, he said, for families to be together.

Those who experienced the massive quake described it as a terrifying event.

Brown was standing in a parking lot when her sports utility vehicle began rocking left and right.

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"You could hear the rattling of the metal" of a large chain link fence around the lot, Brown said.

"It shakes you because you know something else is coming," she said

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Gempa Haiti

(CNN) -- A major earthquake struck southern Haiti on Tuesday, knocking down buildings and power lines and inflicting what its ambassador to the United States called a catastrophe for the Western Hemisphere's poorest nation.

Several eyewitnesses reported heavy damage and bodies in the streets of the capital, Port-au-Prince, where concrete-block homes line steep hillsides. There was no estimate of the dead and wounded Tuesday evening, but the U.S. State Department has been told to expect "serious loss of life," department spokesman P.J. Crowley told reporters in Washington.

"The only thing I can do now is pray and hope for the best," the ambassador, Raymond Alcide Joseph, told CNN.

Pictures sent to CNN's iReport show homes and small businesses in Haiti that have collapsed.

The magnitude 7.0 quake -- the most powerful to hit Haiti in a century -- struck shortly before 5 p.m. and was centered about 10 miles (15 kilometers) southwest of Port-au-Prince, the U.S. Geological Survey reported. It could be felt strongly in eastern Cuba, more than 200 miles away, witnesses said.




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Mike Godfrey, an American contractor working for the U.S. Agency for International Development, said "a huge plume of dust and smoke rose up over the city" within minutes of the quake -- "a blanket that completely covered the city and obscured it for about 20 minutes."

Witnesses reported damaged buildings throughout the capital, including the president's residence and century-old homes nearby, and The Associated Press reported that a hospital collapsed. President Rene Preval is safe, Joseph said, but there was no estimate of the dead and wounded Tuesday evening.

He said an official of his government told him houses had crumbled "on the right side of the street and the left side of the street."

"He said it is a catastrophe of major proportions," Joseph said.

Frank Williams, the Haitian director of the relief agency World Vision International, said the quake left people "pretty much screaming" all around Port-au-Prince. He said the agency's building shook for about 35 seconds, "and portions of things on the building fell off."

"None of our staff were injured, but lots of walls are falling down," Williams said. "Many of our staff have tried to leave, but were unsuccessful because the walls from buildings and private residences are falling into the streets, so that it has pretty much blocked significantly most of the traffic."

Haiti's government is backed by a U.N. peacekeeping mission established after the ouster of former President Jean-Bertrand Aristide in 2004.

The headquarters of the U.N. peacekeeping mission in Port-au-Prince collapsed, a U.N. official told CNN.

There was no immediate report of any dead or wounded from the building, but Alain Le Roy, the undersecretary-general for peacekeeping operations said of the 9,000-member, Brazilian led-force, "For the moment, a large number of personnel remain unaccounted for."

Outside the capital, several people were hurt when they rushed to get out of a school in the southwestern city of Les Cayes, said the Rev. Kesner Ajax, the school's executive director. Two homes in the area collapsed and the top of a church collapsed in a nearby town, he said, but he did not know of any fatalities.

Les Cayes, a city of about 400,000 people, is about 140 miles (225 kilometers) southwest of Port-au-Prince.

The quake took place about 6 miles (10 kilometers) underground, according to the USGS -- a depth that can produce severe shaking. At least 10 aftershocks followed, including two in the magnitude 5 range, the USGS reported.

Jean Bernard, an eyewitness in Port-au-Prince, told CNN the city had no electricity Tuesday evening. The first quake lasted 35 to 40 seconds, he said.

"A lot of houses [and] buildings went down, and people are still running all over the streets," Bernard said. "People are looking for their wives, looking for their husbands and their kids. It's scary."

Luke Renner, an American staying in Cap-Hatien, a city nearly 100 miles north of Port-au-Prince, said he was sitting at his home when "the whole world started to shake."

"It felt like our whole house was balancing on a beach ball," Renner said. "We heard the whole community screaming and in an uproar during that whole 20- to 30-second window."

"I haven't seen any structural damage here," Renner continued. "With the sun setting it may be difficult to tell. In the morning we'll know for sure."

Because of the earthquake's proximity to the capital, and because the city is densely populated and has poorly constructed housing, "it could cause significant casualties," said Jian Lin, a senior geologist at the Woods Hole Oceanographic Institution in Massachusetts.

In Washington, President Obama said the U.S. government would "stand ready to assist the people of Haiti." At the Pentagon, the U.S. military said humanitarian aid was being prepared for shipping, but it was not yet clear where or how it would be sent. A U.S. aviation source said the control tower at the Port-au-Prince international airport collapsed, possibly hindering efforts to fly relief supplies into the country.

Secretary of State Hillary Clinton told reporters that Washington is offering "our full assistance" to Haiti."

The deputy chief of the U.S. mission in Haiti, David Lindwall, told Clinton that he saw "significant damage" from the quake and said U.S. officials there expect "serious loss of life," Crowley said.

And Clinton's husband, former President Clinton -- now the U.N. special envoy for Haiti -- said the world body was "committed to do whatever we can to assist the people of Haiti in their relief, rebuilding and recovery efforts."

The United States has been heavily involved in Haiti commercially, politically and militarily for most of the last century. U.S. intervention under Clinton restored Aristide to power in 1994 after a 1991 coup, and a U.S. jet hustled him out of the country again in 2004 following a rapidly spreading uprising against his government.

The disaster is the latest to befall the country of about 9 million people, roughly the size of Maryland. It is the poorest country in the Western Hemisphere and among the poorest in the world.

With people stripping the trees for fuel and to clear land for agriculture, the mountainous countryside has been heavily deforested. That has led to severe erosion and left Haitians vulnerable to massive landslides when heavy rains fall.

Hurricane Gordon killed more than 1,000 people in 1994, while Hurricane Georges killed more than 400 and destroyed the majority of the country's crops in 1998. And in 2004, Hurricane Jeanne killed more than 3,000 people as it passed north of Haiti, with most of the deaths in the northwestern city of Gonaives.

Gonaives was hit heavily again in 2008, when four tropical systems passed through.

In addition, a Haitian school collapsed in November 2008, killing more than 90 people and injuring 150 -- a disaster authorities blamed on poor construction.

Eighty percent of Haiti's population lives under the poverty line, according to the CIA World Factbook.


Gempa Chile

(CNN) -- Thousands of Chileans may have to sleep in the streets Wednesday night after a 7.7 magnitude earthquake rattled the north part of the country, killing at least two people, injuring dozens and destroying hundreds of homes.

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Valentina Bustos shot this photo Wednesday of earthquake damage at a hotel in Antofagasta, Chile.


"There are more than a thousand, 1,200 houses, at least, that were totally flattened, and others in bad shape," Tocopilla Mayor Luis Moyano said in an interview that aired on Radio Cooperativo.

Tocopilla, Chile, north of Santiago, is about 35 km (21 miles) from the quake's epicenter.

"Tonight, people are going to have to sleep in the street, because there are a great number of houses that are uninhabitable," said Moyano.

Places that could be used as shelters, such as schools and gyms, were damaged in the quake, the mayor said. Moyano put the number of people without shelter at 4,000.

Tocopilla's population is 24,000.

Moyano described going through the damaged city and running into people asking, "Mayor, my house collapsed. What do I do? Mayor, I don't have water. What do I do?"

"It gets to you," he said.

Paula Saez with the aid organization World Vision told CNN she was on a treacherous drive attempting to reach Tocopilla.

"There's no electricity and there's a lot of landslides" covering the road in spots, she said, and the highway was spotted with holes.

Once in Tocopilla, Saez said, she was prepared to offer tents, blankets and medicine to citizens and assess additional needs.

The government's Office of National Emergency reported that two women had died and others were injured in the city. Officials identified one of those killed as 54-year-old Olga Petronila Ortiz Cisternas. The other fatality was an 88-year-old woman.

Municipal official Ljubica Ukurtovic, in an interview with Chilean TV station TVN, said that "approximately 100 people" had sought treatment at a Tocopilla hospital.

The quake collapsed a roadway tunnel, temporarily trapping about 50 construction workers.

High-level government sources said the workers had been rescued.

Repair work on the 793-meter (2,600-foot) Pedro Galleguillos tunnel, completed in 1994, began on October 1 and was to be finished early next year.

Tocopilla is about 1,245 km (780 miles) north of Santiago and the quake was felt in Peru and Bolivia, according to the U.S. Geological Survey.

The temblor was centered at a depth of 60 km (37 miles), the USGS said.

A tsunami warning was issued for the South Pacific coast after the quake hit, but was canceled within an hour.

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Chile has been the scene of hundreds of strong earthquakes throughout history, including the largest one of the 20th century on May 22, 1960. The quake that struck southern Chile that day registered a magnitude 9.5 and launched a tsunami that caused damage as far away as Hawaii, Japan and the Philippines.

Nearly 6,000 people died as a result of the quake and its tsunami. A magnitude 7.8 earthquake that struck southern Chile on January 25, 1939, killed 28,000 people. A magnitude 9.0 earthquake in what was then southern Peru but is now northern Chile killed 25,000 people in 1868

Source : CNN

February 27, 2010

Uhhhhh ... Gundah

Uffftttt ... hari ini aku gundah .. resah .. gelisah juga sedikit .. tapi hatiku tak tenang. Padahal tak ada yang salah dengan sekitarku .. tapi perasaanku .. tak nyaman ..

Rasanya pengen nangis juga. Tapi tak tahu apa yang harus ditangiskan .. Ya Allah .. hatiku begitu sedih .. sampai-sampai aku tak sanggup menceritakan kepada-Mu kesedihan apa yang aku alami. Kalau ada orang yang menghiburku dan menyuruhku untuk bercerita .. maka sungguh!! aku tak tahu apa yang harus aku ceritakan .. apa ini hanya perasaan saja y
ang mencari perhatian ??

Andaikan saja saat ini ada yang bersedia memelukku .. dan membiarkan aku menangis dengan sepuas-puasnya .. tanpa bertanya mengapa dan ada apa .. maka aku akan sangat berterima kasih ..

Dan .. OMG ..
Lagi nulis ini ada yang berantam pulak di warnet.. org pacaran .. ufffttt ...
Milih tempat sendiri-sendiri .. terus yg cowok marah-marah ntah kenapa sama ceweknya .. terus stop-in PC nya .. terus stop-in PC ceweknya .. terus bayar .. eh yang cewek ngambek terus lari keluar .. Kaya adegan film india gitu. Yang cowok terus ngejar ceweknya .. motor ditinggal disini .. terus balik lagi sama si cewek yang masih ngambek ...

Duh .. sore yang aneh .. dengan udaranya yang antara panas dan sejuk..
Andaian sore ini hujan lagi ... alangkah senangnya ..

Oooppppsssstt !!! Hujannnnn !!!
Ya Allah .. baru saja berharap hujan .. tiba-tiba hujan turun .. terima kasih ya Allah ..
Duhh .. sepertinya saat yang tepat buat nangis .. huhuhuhu .. dibawah hujan biar ga ada yang tahu .. kalau diriku nangis dan sedih ..

Tapi .. hiks hubby-ku lupa bawa jas hujan tadi .. kalau pulang kehujanan duhh kan kasihan juga .. semoga ntar hubby mau pulang, hujannya dah reda yaa ..

February 26, 2010

Ehem .. Tak bisa tak memafkan ..

Tadi siang .. sebal sama hubby .. huhuhu
Gara-garanya mungkin sepele.. dia malas ngatarin ke pasar .. Yang jauh lah .. yang panas lah .. kan pake motor .. mana mau beli berasa segala. Mungkin kalau pakai bujuk rayu .. dia bakalan mau .. tapi aku lagi malas merayu-rayu hehe. Kalau mau .. ayo.. kalau ga mau ya udah ,, pergi sendiri. Eh ternyata emang pergi sendiri keika dilihat dia tak bergerak dari tempatnya. Huhuhu sedih .. kebayang beli beras 5 gantang plus belanjaan yang sekantong plastik gede. Gimana bawanya coba .. sepanjang jalannn sedihh aja bawaannya ..

Nyampe di rumah masih sebal .. sampe hubby pergi ke rumah yang di wisma .. mau kerja perbaiki ini sama itu .. tetap saja diriku masih sebel. Ga sempat masak lagi.. hubby pun pergi ga makan juga .. diriku langsung jaga warnet ga makan juga .. dari pagi ga makan ... tapi karena sebal .. bawaannya kenyang .. Tapi sempat juga diriku melarikan diri beli nasi bungkus .. Hubby ga makan karena harus buru-buru ke rumah yang diwisma. Ya udah deh makan sendiri. Hiks ga enak memang makan sendiri .. kebiasaan makan selalu berdua .. akhirnya nasinya ga abis deh .. sedih .. sedih ..

Pulang-pulang hubby bawa soto. Jadinya dirimu masak nasi buat teman makan soto. Tapi hubby cerita .. Tadi ke rumah Uncu (kebetulan rumah Uncu dekat sama rumah yang diwisma .. Uncu itu adik laki-lakinya mama) minjam sesuatu. Nah terus hubby dan si Andi ditawari makan soto.. jadilah makan soto disana .. Nah pulang habis ngerjain rumah yang di wisma .. mereka singgah lagi ke rumah uncu .. ngapain? bilang gini ke Uncu dan istrinya " Uncu .. soto yang tadi masih ada enggak?? Kalau masih ada .. minta Ncu .. bungkusin buat si Wulan .. "

Wew .. huhuhuhu .. langsung deh luluh ... ilang semua sebal.. semua sedih ... ilang semua capek semua dongkol .. yang ada Lups My Hubby So Much ...

Mungkin karena disini .. yang ada cuma kita berdua .. Klo dah ada anak .. pasti kepikiran anak juga kali yeee... hehehe

February 25, 2010

Ketika Lingkungan Menyeleksi Anggotanya ..

Ehh .. ada apa ini? hehe ..
Gak ada apa-apa kok ..
Cuma cerita-cerita aja ..

Pohon aja .. gak bisa dipastikan bibitnya akan 100% sama dengan induknya, apalagi manusia ya? Kalau dalam pemilihan bibit yang baik dilakukan dengan penyeleksian oleh si empunya bibit, nah manusia bagaimana cara penyeleksiannya?

Kalau menurut aku yah .. sebaik-baik apapun pembekalan di rumah .. anggaplah orangtua tahu persis anaknya adalah yang terbaik .. pribadi unggul .. hebat dalam segala hal .. akan tetapi belum tentu di luar kondisi yang sama juga akan diterima si anak. Lingkungan lah yang akan menyeleksi anggota-anggotanya. Jadi .. maaf saja kalau misalnya si anak terbaik ternyata tak berarti apa-apa dalam lingkungannya sama saja dengan nol besar !!

Makanya mengaapa dari usia dini sia anak harus dikenalkan dengan lingkungan dimana dia tumbuh. Tak cukup hanya lingkungan keluarga dan sekolahnya saja.. Lingkungan tempat tinggal juga akan memberikan pengalaman yang unik untuk si anak nanti tumbuh dan berkembang.

Jangan harap dengan bekal fasilitas yang luar biasa si anak dengan mudah akan berbaur dengan lingkungannya .. bukan .. bukan dengan itu .. tetapi dengan mengajaknya ikut dalam aktifitas bermanfaat yang ada di lingkungan si anak.. akan memberikan nilai lebih untuk kehidupannya kelak. Jangan takut jika ada satu dua orang anak yang "jahat" berada di sekitarnya .. sebab satu dua anak yang "baik" pun juga ada. Biarkan anak mendapatkan point nya sendiri dengan caranya menghadapi lingkungannya. Sebab dengan kondisi plus dan minus yang dia hadapi akan memberikan pengalaman pada si anak untuk mengenal plus minus orang-orang disekitarnya.

Nah kemudian .. barulah orangtua mengarahkan .. memberikan gambaran .. memberikan dukungan terhadap setiap perilaku yang baik dan sopan santun yang dulu diterima si anak dari keluarga dan kemudian dia praktekkan dalam pergaulannya .. serta memberikan contoh sebab akibat terhadap sesuatu yang buruk yang mungkin terjadi dan dialami si anak. Karena walau bagaimanapun .. tak ada satu orangtua pun yang bisa mengambil keputusan bulat-bulat terhadap satu tindakan si anak melainkan dirinya sendiri.

So Pak .. Buk .. Memberikan perlindungan terhadap satu anak yang dianggap lemah dengan terlalu berlebihan .. akan memberi satu tambahan lemah bagi si anak. Ingat Pak Bu .. tak ada satu pun anak yang lemah kecuali dia tidak mengetahui apapun yang harus dia lakukan untuk dirinya sendiri ..

Doohhhh diriku tak mau membaca lagi dari atas .. karena yakin 100% .. diriku menulis hal yang entah apa-apa ajah ... Okey dee dah cape ngetik .. mo istirahat dulu hihihih .. jangan dianggap serius yah ... :P

February 24, 2010

Kangen .. dah lama ga nulis ...

Udah lama ga nulis kangen juga euyy ... padahal yang mau ditulis juga gak ada tapi pengennn aja nulis ..

Sore ini seperti sore-sore sebelumnya .. panas dan gerah .. tapi karena tadi pagi abis subuh sempat menikmati sejuknya udara subuh yang tersisa waktu keluar rumah nyari gorengan pisang plus ketan .. jadinya rela deh kalau sore ini gerah dan panas .. hehe .. Duh subuh pagi itu yah .. ademmmmm banget .. syahdu .. apalagi tadi malamnya abis hujan .. jadi kangen deh tuh sama suasana subuh tadi hehe

Hubby masih sibuk renovasi rumah nya mama yang di wisma indah lestari bareng ama si Andi. Jadinya diriku kebagian jaga warnet yang udah mulai sepi dan sepi ini dengan ngantuk yang tidak tertahankan. Jadinya lebih baik nulis sesuatu deh di blog .. paling ga bisa buat ngilangin ngantuk .. wew.. hehehe

Tadi aku masak tempe goreng plus sambal terasi buat brunch hehe alias breakfast plus lunch .. maksudnya pengennn banget nyobain masak tempe goreng yang gurih seperti tempe gorengnya tukang pecel lele di depan warnet .. tapii .. kenapa tempeku ga lembut-lembut terus bumbunya ga begitu meresap ke dalam .. huuuhh .. padahal sudah direndam dalam air bumbu kurleb 15 menit. Hubby bilang mungkin dia punya taktik lain atau tempenya khusus.. hmm apa iyah?? Jadi pengen tahu ..

O iya .. udah 3 hari ini bawaannya sedih melulu hiks .. semua yang sudah direncanakan dari dulu .. selalu dibayangkan akan membuka satu langkah baru ternyata .. tinggal mimpi belaka .. begitulah nasib yah klo bersandar sama orang lain .. maksudnya bukan pada kemampuan diri sendiri.

Masalahnya bukannya ga mampu .. tapi gak ada modal huhuhu .. nasib.. nasib .. jadi wong kere .. jadi sebegitu mudah dipermainkan .. diberi mimpi-mimpi manis eh kemudian dihempaskan ke tanah .. sakit memang .. tapi hubby bilang .. "udahlah dek .. sabar aja .." .. Iya .. emang harus sabar .. memangnya apa lagi yang bisa diperbuat selain sabar. Memang benarlah kata orang bijak .. kalau orang kaya itu beramal dengan hartanya .. maka si miskin beramal dengan kesabarannya .. dooooohhh jadi lega deh ..

Semoga sajaa.. suatu saat nanti .. ktika roda kehidupan dan nasib itu berputar .. kita bisa merasakan untuk berada di atas dan tidak lupa untuk bersiap jika suatu saat harus terhimpit di bawah ..

Kalau diingat-ingat .. aduhhh tuh kan jadi berkaca-kaca lagi .. huhuhuhu ... dah lah .. ga perlu diingat-ingat yang bikin sedih itu .. toh akhirnya nanti akan merusak hari-hari. Jadi ayoo senyum lagi .. Kita hadapi semua ini dengan ikhlas dan sabar serta tawakal .. Pokoknya jangan pernah menyerah dan terus berusaha. Pasti ada jalan keluarnya .. ayoo semangat :)