Padang Mendung euy ... Dinginnnn ....

Tadi keluar bareng hubby ke bank .. biasa mau nyetor .. nah pergi nya udah mulai hujan gitu. Tapi males pake jas hujan. Eh depan SMU 3 terpaksa berenti juga pake jas hujan gara-garanya hujanny makin derasa. Hubby pake jas hujan lengkap tuh sama celana nya dan aku cuma jas nya doank .. males pake celana nya yang bentuknya gombrang ga jelas hehehe .. lagian gak deras-deras banget ..

Eh pas kita nyampe depan SMU 1 tuh hujan tiba-tiba deras .. dan aku lihat arah ke pondok sana .. alias arah ke gunung pada juga .. Gila kabutnyaaaaaaaa putih .. Kaya ada kebakaran gitu deh .. Ada kabut putihnya .. ada juga kabut hitamnya .. Hubby pikir sih ada kebakaran .. rupanya emang kabutnya gitu .. hitam karena emang mendung dan lagi hujan. Gak ngerti apa emang karena lagi musimnya ato emang ada kebakaran hutan lagi .. Tapi dari hawa nya sih kayanya emang lg musimnya de .. soalnya emang dinginnnn .. karena biasanya sih klo mendung hujan karena kebakaran hutan gitu .. cuacanya beda .. Hujan sih hujan tapi gerah ..

Pokoknya Padang dinginnn banget nih malam ini ..

Barusan chat ama temen lama yang kebetulan emang tinggal dan emang orang India. Kebayang ga? Dia itu temen chat di hari pertama aku belajar chatting .. wew .. dramatis banget yaq hehehe Klo ga salah waktu itu .. bulan Juni tahun 2000. Tanggalnya lupa :D Tapi kita masih keep in touch sih walopun chat jarang-jarang banget .. pokoknya masih bisa contact aja kita dah seneng.
Dan tadi aku juga baru tau .. anaknya dah lahirrr ....... waaa turut senang .. Baby girl yang lucu bangettt .. cuteeee .. dan matanya yang bulat terus item .. bulu matanya lentik .. cantik bangetttttttttttt .. sayangnya baru tau sih klo tuh temen (namanya Karina) udah ngelahirin. Udah Bulan oktober tahun kemaren. Duhhh Karina gratz yaaaaaaaaa... U are realy blessed de. Do'ain aku juga yaq .. pengen jugaaaa punya baby serah deh mau cowok ato cewek sama aja ..

Cerita punya cerita beberapa hari yang lalu .. adekku yang paling bontot nyeletuk gini nih ..
"Adik juga pengen married.. tapi ntar aja"
"Mang nya napa?"
"Iya soalnya klo married sekarang.. kan Iyang belum punya anak.. ntar klo adik punya anak duluan pasti Iyang sedih .. terus nangis" . Wew.. alasan yang enggak banget ..
"Wew .. anak tuh rejeki dari Allah .. klo kita belum sanggup megang amanat dari Nya kita ga bakal dikasi anak deh .. berarti kita tuh emang belum mampu untuk punya anak .. walo pun udah berusaha sekuat tenaga .. ato mungkin do'anya kali kurang .. Mintanya ga sungguh-sungguh .."
"Iya sih .. tapi tetap aja .. klo kejadiannya adik punya anak duluan Iyang pasti sedih .. terus nangis .."
"Gak kok .. masa begitu .. ya harus sabar .. tetap berusaha dan berdo'a "
"Iyaaaa abis itu pasti sedih lagi dan nangis lagi "

Wew .. dasar bandel .. tapi umm.. mungkin ada benernya juga huaaaaaaa tuh anak bisa aja ...

Klo ga ada halangan nih .. sekitaran bulan April ato Mei adekku yang nomor dua mo married. Jadi .. karena ngebahas itu lah .. kami sampai pada percakapan yang aneh begitu hehhe

Brrrrrr dinginnnnnn ... dan laper ..
Untung hubby mau berbaik hati beli makanan di luar soale .. tadi hubby abis hujan-hujan keluhannya demam terus aku ga masak gara-gara kulkas kosong hiks hiks belum sempat ke pasar .. Tapi tiba-tiba hubby banget terus ambil jaket dan pamit mo beli makanan. Cian hubby .. but love yaaaaaa

Why hard to get pregnant? hiks hiks

How to get Pregnant Faster – Top Ten Tips

1. Have sex three times a week.
   Having regular sex is the best way to get pregnant. Couples often try to time everything perfectly for ovulation but do not have sex when they think they are not ovulating. It is true that sex that is not within the time of ovulation will not result in pregnancy. However, because women do not always ovulate when they think they will, having sex three times a week will help to a woman cover her bases, so to speak, and not miss an opportunity to get pregnant.
2. Use an ovulation prediction kit or fertility monitor.
   Using an ovulation kit to predict when you are ovulating will improve your chances of getting pregnant. For many women charting or other methods of ovulation prediction are too confusing. Ovulation prediction kits work by reading LH surges prior to ovulation. They are relatively easy to use and are generally accurate for predicting ovulation. Fertility monitors, such as the Clear Blue Easy monitor, are also a worthwhile investment if you would like to get pregnant faster. Fertility monitors are similar to ovulation prediction kits in that they read changes in LH but they also read changes in other hormones and don’t require any guesswork for couples. They are easy to use and will tell you when the best time to get pregnant is.
3. Have sex before ovulation (not after).
   Sometimes couples get confused about the best time to have sex in relationship to ovulation. You have a small window of time each month to get pregnant. After a woman ovulates the egg will survive approximately 24 hours. Sperm, on the other hand, will live for up to three to five days. This is why having sex two to three days before ovulation will increase your chances of getting pregnant. Don’t wait until the day you ovulate to have sex. Your partner’s sperm will last longer than your egg and you don’t want to miss an opportunity by waiting.
4. Don’t rely on the Calendar method for predicting ovulation.
   A lot of couples have heard to have sex around day fourteen of your cycle. This is based on the calendar method and assumes that you have a regular 28-day cycle and ovulate mid-cycle. Although this is better than just picking an arbitrary day to have sex, it is not a very accurate way to predict when you ovulate. Many women do not ovulate on day fourteen and knowing precisely when you ovulate will help you time intercourse better. Ovulation prediction kits, looking at previous months bbt charts, or watching for body cues will help you to determine when you ovulate.
5. Charting may not be the best way to predict ovulation.
   Charting is great for tracking your cycle but it does have disadvantages. By the time you can see ovulation on a bbt chart, you have already ovulated. It is good to chart so you can track your cycles, see if you ovulate the same time each month, and also so you can look back on your cycle and see if you timed things right. But if this is your first cycle trying to get pregnant or if you are not ovulating at the same time each month, an ovulation prediction kit would be more helpful.
6. See a doctor before you start trying to get pregnant.
   Make sure you are in good health and have had a regular check up from your OBGYN or medical provider. Untreated infections, sexually transmitted diseases, or poor health can affect your chances of getting pregnant. Its good to see a doctor as well as start taking prenatal vitamins prior to trying to conceive.
7. Don’t smoke, drink alcohol, or abuse drugs when trying to get pregnant.
   This may seem like common sense but many women do try to get pregnant while smoking, drinking or using drugs. Smoking, drugs, and alcohol can affect your fertility. It will also affect your unborn child. It is important to stop smoking or using drugs and alcohol before getting pregnant and not wait until you find out you are pregnant.
8. Have enjoyable sex.
   Sometimes when couples are trying to conceive, sex becomes a job or function of reproduction and is not as enjoyable. Plan a romantic evening or try something different to spice things up. How you are feeling sexually may factor into your chances of getting pregnant. Some researchers believe that having an orgasm during sex increases your chances of getting pregnant. For women, the spasmic movements of orgasm will help pull the sperm into the uterus and for men a better orgasm may increase the man’s sperm count.
9. Have sex in positions that keep sperm inside the vagina longer.
   The missionary position is a good position to use when trying to get pregnant. Avoid positions where the woman is on top. Gravity will allow sperm to leak out with these positions. Also try placing a pillow under your hips to help tilt your pelvis and keep the sperm in longer. Don’t get up right after sex. Try to relax and allow the sperm to stay in the vagina as long as possible.
10. There is no such thing as trying too hard to get pregnant.
    Most couples get pregnant within a year of trying. If you have not gotten pregnant within a year consult your doctor for advice.
    

resource : http://www.justmommies.com/articles/how-to-get-pregnant.shtml

Klo Sakit Perut udah Sakittttttttttttt Banget

Ceritanya .. waktu itu pas Papanya hubby lg di Padang. Perutnya beliau sakit banget .. mungkin salah makan ato kebanyakan makan sambal. Maklum udah tua .. perut kan udah gak sekuat dulu lg sanggup makan pedes-pedes .. klo sekarang aja makan rada keras dikit aja .. pasti ngaruh ke Papanya hubby.

Nah satu hari Papa hubby sakit perut, karena makan sambal yang kebanyakan kali .. Jadi karena aku lihat sakit banget aku tanya ke Mama aku, kasih obat apa yang bagus. Mama bilang sih kasih strocain aja dulu. Dan emang .. gak lama abis minum obat, keadaan Papa nya hubby membaik.

Cumaa .. kebetulan waktu itu ceritanya Mama hubby, Mama dan Papa lagi ke rumah sodara (adiknya Mamanya Hubby). Diajakin makan.. eh makan sambal lagi.. ya udah kambuh lagi sakit perutnya. Di kasih strocain lg .. tapi msh ngeluh juga sakit perut .. mungkin udah parah banget kali ya? Sampe-sampe nyebut ke Mama nya hubby .. klo sempat lewat di Padang gimana?? hu hu hu hiks .. Papa ada ada aja de..

Akhirnya tanya-tanya ke temen Papa hubby yang tau tentang obat alternatif .. nah resep dari beliau gini nih :

1. Sejumput kecil gambir >> dihaluskan (klo di Padang biasanya dijual tempat orang jual sirih dan perlengkapannya atau tempat orang jualan bunga rampai..)
2. Telur ayam kampung >> ambil kuningnya
3. Madu kira-kira 1 sendok makan

Semua bahan dicampur jadi satu terus dikocok .. dan diminum .. (Glekk .. aku paling antiiii sama yang namanya telur ayam kampung .. apalagi kuningnya .. apalagi mentah ... wew.... ampun daahh)

Langsung deh cabut ke Pasar Alai ma Mama hubby terus nyari bahan-bahan tadi .. nyampe di rumah langsung dibuat dan diminum ma Papa .. Alhamdulillah .. besok Papa udah sangat mendingan .. Seneng banget .. plus lega .. Secara Mama nya hubby yah klo liat Papa hubby dah sakit gitu .. jadi yang gimana gitu .. ya cemas .. ya ga tau mesti ngapain .. soale .. rahasia hehehe Papa nya hubby paling anti disuruh minum obat .. kecuali klo yang nyuruh aku ..sama sekali ga bisa nolak dan patuh banget hehehe lucu juga ..

Sekedar berbagi tips aja .. aku sempat searching di internet .. Gambir+kuning telur+Madu emang bagus kok buat lambung yang bermasalah .. nah klo sakit berlanjut teuteupp segera hubungi dokter yaq :D

umm.. nice movie - Turtles can Fly -

Sebenarnya sih .. jujur aja .. udah bosannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn ama film-film buatan holywood ato film buatan lokal .. bukan nya ga mencintai film buatan kita sendiri, gw mencintai banget malah .. tapi hanya film-film tertentu juga exp: cut nyak dien .. nagabonar .. kebanyakan film-film lama deh yang gak terlalu banyak ngayal dan kebanyakan ceritanya bertele-tele dan kebanyakan dramanya .. gak asikk ..

Film barat apalagi .. udah bener-bener bosan .. yaang katanya masuk box office lah .. yang menang ini menang itu .. tapi tetap aja sekerang ini ga mampu menyentuh rasa sense gw atas film itu .. apalagi liat actor/aktris nya.. dah muak.. tambah lagi adegan panas .. makin serasa mau muntah ..

Nahh untung ada penyegaran nih diantara rasa ketertarikan gw ama film mulai jemu.. Gw nonton ga sengaja di Metro nih malam minggu kemaren. Film Iran .. dulu pernah juga nonton Film buatan iran .. tapi taulah yang diputar disini kan dikit banget ..

Dulu nonton Children of Heaven .. Itu ceritanya anak laki-laki yang ikutan lomba lari demi bisa mendapatkan sepasang sepatu untuk saudara perempuannya? Klo menurut gw sih tuh film bagus dan mampu menghipnotis mata gw untuk selalu terpaku ke layar teve. Simple .. gak aneh-aneh dan nature banget ..

Dannnn ternyata film yang gw tonton kemaren - judulnya Turtles can Fly - waaaaaaaaaaaaaaa juga bagussss.......... Film tenteng kehidupan anak-anak pengungsi Iran yang bersuku Kurdi .. Simple .. Mudah dimegerti dan menyentuh hati. Setting waktu nya zaman perang menjelang runtuhnya Saddam .. tapi yang nampak difilm emang sih bukan perangnya tapi ada apa "dibalik layar" perang itu. Anak-anak pengungsi, kehidupan mereka , tempat tinggal .. bagaimana masyarakatnya .. serta tentu saja .. akibatnya ..

Dan .. untuk film ini two thumbs up deh ... Suka abieees :D sampe-sampe aku nyari film nya sendiri untuk ntar ditonton lagi lain waktu dan dapat hihihihihi .. senangnyaaa

Klo ga caya film nya bagus.. nonton ndiri yaq :)

Made by Kurdish-Iranian filmmaker Bhaman Khobadi ("A Time of Drunken Horses") "Turtles Can Fly" is a film of rare beauty and humanity set in the lead up to the most recent Gulf war. It takes us to the heart of the Kurdish enclaves in Northern Iraq – a hellish place of dust and cliffs where refugees forge a kind of life in a makeshift tent village.

Gangs of orphaned kids roaming the camp seem to run the joint; especially a bossy 13 year old called Satellite (Soran Ebrahim). He hooks up satellite dishes so the village elders can watch CNN to see when the war is coming. He's also in charge of the bands of kids who work disarming the minefields and selling explosives for cash.

When Satellite marches these kids off to the minefields, we see the most harrowing scenes of children with missing arms and legs – extracting the tops of landmines from the earth with their teeth. The pain is just palpable.These are children who have long left childhood behind, because they've had to survive alone, or perhaps with a couple of siblings if they're lucky. We meet Henkov (Hirsh Feyssal), a boy with no arms said to be a "seer." Henkov lives with his sister Agrin (Avaz Latif) and a toddler who appears to have been abandoned - so they're acting as his surrogate parents. Agrin, a haunted-looking waif, clings uncertainly to life, teetering on the brink of a high cliff, unsure if she wants to even survive this life.

There is such pain and such feeling in this film, but there is humour too.

Some of the most spirited moments involve Satellite and his bike, the one glimmer of colour in this bleak landscape strewn with broken tanks and mortar shells. Laced with ribbons and horns in an even more theatrical way than most kids' bikes, it is his prize possession. This is our only reminder that he is actually a child – the rest of his life is just so adult and so calculating because he's had to become that way to survive.

"Turtles can Fly" is one of the most powerful anti-war films I've ever seen, without hectoring or over-explaining. It just lays out the brutal truth, quietly and profoundly - and it stays with you for days afterwards.

- Nicola Harrison

Doa Qunut Nazilah

Ya Allah .. Jaga saudara-saudaraku di sana Ya Allah .. Lindungi mereka .. Kuatkan mereka dan kasihani mereka Ya Allah .. Jaga Saudara-saudaraku .. Jaga saudara-saudaraku dan Tolong jaga Saudara-saudaraku di Palestina sana .. Kabulkanlah ya Allah .. Amin ...

Doa Qunut Nazilah (Hadist diriwayatkan oleh Umar Bin Khatab) :


Alloohummaghfir lilmu'miniina wal mu'minaat Wal muslimiina wal muslimaat Wa allif baina quluubihim Wa ashlih dzaata bainahum Wanshur 'Alaa 'Aduwwika wa'aduwwihim Allohummal'in kafarota ahlil kitaabil ladziina Yukadzibuuna rusulaka wayuqottiluuna auliyaa aka Alloohumma khollif baina kalimaatihim Wazalzil Aqdaamahum Wa anzilbihim ba'sakalladzii layuroddu 'anil qaumil mujrimiin Bismillaahirrahmaanirrahiim Allohumma innaanasta'iinuka

Artinya:

"Ya Allah ampunilah dosa kaum muslimin dan muslimat, mukminin dan mukminat,
Ya Allah jinakkan, satu padukan hati orang-orang muslimin,
Perbaikilah keadaan mereka,
Tolonglah kaum muslimin utuk melawan musuh-musuh-Mu, dan musuh-musuh mereka

Ya Allah, laknatlah orang-orang kafir yang mendustakan para RasulMu dan membunuh para kekasih-Mu,
Ya Allah cerai-beraikan kesatuan kata mereka,
Hancur leburkan kekuatan mereka,
Dan turunkanlah bencana-Mu yang tiada tertolak lagi untuk orang-orang yang penuh dengan dosa

Dengan menyebut nama-Mu ya Allah yang Maha Pengasih Maha Penyayang,
Ya Allah, sesungguhnya kami memohon perlindungan kepadaMu"


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